ThE " tOgether" FaCtOr...

so well i jus got outta topics out here to discuss after my previous posts....hmmm,,,here comes sumthin for u ppl....im gonna express my views in whether intimacy plays a role in relationships.....
intimacy...now what does that mean?it may be sumthin as simple as a holdin hands...r sumthin much more....
now why wuld two ppl who r in an active relationship wanna b kind of intimate?
>reason one mayb it gives them a sence of togetherness...oneness....[if u lik a genuine person i guess dis may b ta only reason ]
>else mayb becos u wanna assure tat person dosent go away at any point..[chepos do really adopt dis..i personally knw my frnds who hav fallen prey an cant let go either]
>mayb ur hormones r talkin a toll on you tat you cant resist tat urge....cos der seems an endless wait of sum odd 10years..before u actually get a chance legally to b wit sumone,knw them,b a part of them...an u knw wat... but to my opinion i guess i mite term dis as being such a big cheapo...its lik hes using you till his urges r staisfied then finally u break up wit sum silly reason...an he goes away throwin it all in ta bin....to ta next women r mite probabily in wedlock wit sum women later...
im seriously lost...dunno wat to say...i recently got around readin a copy of "marie claire" an u knw wat?? there was this shocking article which said the sad new trend of women in India....who pay an odd 30,000 bucks to restore their virginity....an hide the past behind them!! its like starting a new life of hopes with a LIE....now either they must b bold enough to speak up an tell they got dumped by a guy they gav themselves too.... r never marry atall....now y did they even giv themselves fully in the first place???is the three letter wrd the only way to PROVE ultimatelove?? NO...this sad trend is gettin worse by the daysss...be it guys r gals...an talkin abt guys...gals r lik icecream to them i feel...once tasted....they want to switch to the next flavour....[most i mean "most" of the guys r this way......]]..its like the dialogue i heard by my classmate once say..."povoma,corect panoma,velaye mudichoma,kalambunoma"......fuck!!bloody brutal chepos.....y r ppl like this?? why cant they understand LIFE??intimacy aint sum kind of plaything.....its sumthing VERY emotional......two ppl who r genuinely connected heart to heart without any cheap motive...can b intimate....an mind you...who said...intimacy is only bodily?? u can b intimate by ur minds....to the one you think u will b with for the rest of your life....you can share ur depeset feelings an wishes.....
so well gals an guys who read this...i dunno if this whole thing made sence to you...all i can say is..don jump into conclusions an later regret,,, try waiting for THE ONE in your life....an remmeber their can only b "a MR. RIGHT "in a gals life...an wen u cum to ta point wer ur luv is gonna b judged by how bodily initmate you r...remmeber HES NOT THE ONE FOR YOU....AND NEVER WAS TOO....!!